2007年11月5日 星期一

My memory with my roommates

Since this semester I have adapt myself to the new roommate. But I recalled the interaction with my precious roommates and I.
I myself sometimes am very careless about every issue around me. Even if during the process there is a little bit strange or absurd, I always take them for granted and don’t think it deeply. But there are two sides on everything. Just depend on how you perceive this issue and if these issues are put into the same position. For me, before enter university, this think didn’t bother me so much, simply because at that time, my goal was to enter a good university and make me free from test. But once entering in the university, at the beginning, everyone isn’t familiar with each other. Generally speaking, I should behave well to make people leave good impression on me. But my behaviors in my dorm like in my home. Thus, I brought some trouble to my roommates, such as forgetting to bring the key and pleasing them to come back right away. Little by little, one of my roommates disliked me a little bit. Even, one of my nicknamed was named after “兩光”(In Taiwanese) I found myself unpopular in the end of semester. But it seemed that it was a little bit late to make up for my behaviors. Besides, during the semester, I also felt hatred to stay at dorm primarily because I didn’t how to get along with my roommates. Then, I turned to my good friends how to improve the relationship between them and me. One of the ideas was to learn to observe people and think what thoughts they wanted to express are. In addition, I needed to learn how to put myself to their condition. Little by little, I became popular. Sometimes I found many interesting things. Probably by observation, it can inspire my imagination and creativity.

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